In order to prevent a man from using you for s3x, you need to raise your standards. Additionally, you need to wise up to the fact that all the things you were told that indicate genuine interest doesn't necessarily, actually mean he has genuine interest in you.
Texts, compliments, flirting and promises, as sweet as they sound to your ears
they mean nothing without CONSISTENT ACTIONS!
Sweet words take seconds to come up with and can be recycled over and over again.
You also need to accept that people lie. You only have to experience something like this once or twice before you smarten up and accept that some people will say whatever they think will get them what they want, even if it means being dishonest and misleading someone. But you do not have to be fooled and you do not have to be a victim. You can smarten up, learn their mistakes and learn their games.
Why is it up to you to spot their game and not up to them to stop playing games? Because you can only rely on yourself. Loyalty has to start with you and no one will have your back like you will.
Akinluyi Jeffrey Nitroz